Faithfully admonish your friend, and skillfully lead him on. If you find him impracticable, stop. Do not disgrace yourself.
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- Analects XII.23 — translated by James Legge; Entire answer to Tsze-kung on friendship, retaining the limit on unwanted counsel. Adjacent chapters read; translator confirmed from edition title page. Public-domain English translation.
- Analects XII.23 — translated by James Legge
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